paperdollx_x (![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} paperdollx_x) wrote,@ 2004-11-23 08:39:00 |
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I think everyone should read this..
why bother disliking someone or "hating" someone if all it will bring you is nothing really.
think about it. change the way you treat someone you dont like and make their life hell and what do you get out of it, a few more enemies, maybe 1 or 2 people to agree, then some sort of "dignity". when does a person finally feel "dignity" anyway, after ruining the life of another. haven't oyu ever hear "what goes aroun comes around". i know everyone has experienced that before.
happiness. something we dont find to often. we also take it for granted. sometimes you have to leave things behind to make yourself happy, and although that may sound selfish, you have to make sure your happiness is fulfilled in order to discontinue hurting yourself and others.
a friend. if you are a true friend you dont try to ruin something important for someone. a friend. if you are a true friend you will respect the happiness that has come to them after constant heartache.
heartache. something that everyone will go through. heartache does not only happen when you get hurt by someone, but when you hurt someone as well. because as heartless as some may think a person is, sometimes it hurts more to say i'm sorry, and that you cannot fulfill what you had once wanted and what they want, because you know, that trying to fulfill this now, would be nothing but pain, because it is not where your heart truly is.
love. something that you shouldn't let go of when you find it.
true love. there is a between love and true love. true love, you dont find very often, and it takes alot of hurting until you can find that true love. and when you do, your life will change. as much as you may not think so, you will never be able to smile so much, but worry and cry so much in your life. it may not seem so, but it is a very special thing.
family. although family does not have to be your immediate or biological, it can be the people in your life who feel like they are your family. these are people you cherish with your life. these are the people you would take a bullet for any day. but you must also respect that they too make mistakes, and although as much as you would love to fix those mistakes, you cannot, you can be their light in the darkness of the fault, helping them.
respect. you lose it, you gain it, there are different forms of it. You can never meet a person in your life, and have no respect for them because of what others say. oyu may know someone your entire life, and have more resepct for them than anyone on this planet. you may know someone for a few months, have no respect for them, then gain respect for them. or you can have resepct for someone then lose it. although it may not seem so. to gain or lose respect for someone is a very very big decision, because it reflects your behaviour and thoughts towards this person.
need. a thought for when you dislike or "hate" someone. you may not realize it, but many times in the end you try ruining this persons life, then later becoming friends with them, or in the end, you will need something from them you never thought you'd need.
jealousy. we all grow jealous of someone or something in our lives. no matter how hard we try to fight it, it over powers us. we must deal and move on.
time. everything happens in time..everything is meant to happen in time. trying to rush something will not make things easy or end up the way you want it to, let it all adjust in time.
i have met some amazing people in my life, and each and every single one who is in it is important to me, whether they think so or not, it hurts more to see them upset rather then having myself upset.
my family, the people who mean to me most, they know who they are, the main one being my joni/brie bear.
i have found love in my life that i thought i could never find. and for others to respect that would be just enough.
i apologize to those i have ever wronged. we are only human. we make mistakes.
but why make it worst for some when you yourself will make mistakes as well?
be glad you can breath, you have people in your life that do anything for you. i have had to go through numerous amounts of experiences to reach some conclusions with my life.
with love.
Nance. xo
why bother disliking someone or "hating" someone if all it will bring you is nothing really.
think about it. change the way you treat someone you dont like and make their life hell and what do you get out of it, a few more enemies, maybe 1 or 2 people to agree, then some sort of "dignity". when does a person finally feel "dignity" anyway, after ruining the life of another. haven't oyu ever hear "what goes aroun comes around". i know everyone has experienced that before.
happiness. something we dont find to often. we also take it for granted. sometimes you have to leave things behind to make yourself happy, and although that may sound selfish, you have to make sure your happiness is fulfilled in order to discontinue hurting yourself and others.
a friend. if you are a true friend you dont try to ruin something important for someone. a friend. if you are a true friend you will respect the happiness that has come to them after constant heartache.
heartache. something that everyone will go through. heartache does not only happen when you get hurt by someone, but when you hurt someone as well. because as heartless as some may think a person is, sometimes it hurts more to say i'm sorry, and that you cannot fulfill what you had once wanted and what they want, because you know, that trying to fulfill this now, would be nothing but pain, because it is not where your heart truly is.
love. something that you shouldn't let go of when you find it.
true love. there is a between love and true love. true love, you dont find very often, and it takes alot of hurting until you can find that true love. and when you do, your life will change. as much as you may not think so, you will never be able to smile so much, but worry and cry so much in your life. it may not seem so, but it is a very special thing.
family. although family does not have to be your immediate or biological, it can be the people in your life who feel like they are your family. these are people you cherish with your life. these are the people you would take a bullet for any day. but you must also respect that they too make mistakes, and although as much as you would love to fix those mistakes, you cannot, you can be their light in the darkness of the fault, helping them.
respect. you lose it, you gain it, there are different forms of it. You can never meet a person in your life, and have no respect for them because of what others say. oyu may know someone your entire life, and have more resepct for them than anyone on this planet. you may know someone for a few months, have no respect for them, then gain respect for them. or you can have resepct for someone then lose it. although it may not seem so. to gain or lose respect for someone is a very very big decision, because it reflects your behaviour and thoughts towards this person.
need. a thought for when you dislike or "hate" someone. you may not realize it, but many times in the end you try ruining this persons life, then later becoming friends with them, or in the end, you will need something from them you never thought you'd need.
jealousy. we all grow jealous of someone or something in our lives. no matter how hard we try to fight it, it over powers us. we must deal and move on.
time. everything happens in time..everything is meant to happen in time. trying to rush something will not make things easy or end up the way you want it to, let it all adjust in time.
i have met some amazing people in my life, and each and every single one who is in it is important to me, whether they think so or not, it hurts more to see them upset rather then having myself upset.
my family, the people who mean to me most, they know who they are, the main one being my joni/brie bear.
i have found love in my life that i thought i could never find. and for others to respect that would be just enough.
i apologize to those i have ever wronged. we are only human. we make mistakes.
but why make it worst for some when you yourself will make mistakes as well?
be glad you can breath, you have people in your life that do anything for you. i have had to go through numerous amounts of experiences to reach some conclusions with my life.
with love.
Nance. xo
